Our earliest unconscious memories are of oral gratification, through being fed as tiny babies: It can even feel a little bit naughty — probably not something our grandmothers would have done! Yes guys, kissing really is important — and not just on the mouth, but all over! For others, it's a sign of loving intimacy if a man still finds sex pleasurable then. It of course feels good, but it also makes them feel desired.
Sometimes women will be turned on by this! Encourage her to tell you what she likes best, and develop your skills in that direction! Our outer bodies, however, are not the only differences. Men can concentrate deeply on a task in hand and may not be aware of what is going on around them; women, on the other hand, are better at multi-tasking — they can chat while they work on the computer, for example. We worry about our push-up bras and how big our butt looks in an outfit. This is nature's way of increasing the chances of conception. The more you practice, you might find the longer you can go on edging, and the more explosive the eventual cumming can be. Any one that knows how to give a blow job well will tell you that the following technique is a must when your mouth is tired, your gag reflex is getting triggered or he is well endowed and deep throating is a challenge. These days there is lots of research available showing that male and female brains develop and focus differently. Women also vary quite a bit in terms of the distance between the vagina and the clitoris, and the size of the clitoris itself. If you tend to cum too quickly edging can help you lengthen the time between getting horny and cumming. Ideally, of course, most of us also want to be loved — and to feel some level of commitment from their partner. Adding different combinations with both hands, or your mouth make for creativity and fun! It can help avoid those awful misunderstandings you know, those times when she's sulking and you haven't a clue what's wrong! The truth is that people with a mature approach to sex and relationships are not going to reject someone because of the size or appearance of part of their body. Translation- it is a snug, warm, wet environment and a most pleasurable place for a penis. You will want to be aware however, that using them may very well numb your partner unless he has a condom on. The best thing to do to make your intentions known is to make a comment before or during oral sex to let him know where you want him to cum. There has been a lot of discussion over the years about orgasm via the G-spot and orgasm via the clitoris — whether they are the same, whether one is better than the other, etc etc. It might take months or years of fine tuning in a relationship before you experience a mutual climax. My belief is that they are two 'ends' of the same spectrum which together form a glorious whole and indeed the nerve endings of the clitoris go a long way into the vagina. And if you really want to win brownie points, learn a holistic, sensual massage technique that will soothe her body, mind and spirit — and bring you closer on every level. This usually means the woman comes more quickly than by penetration alone, and the man can hold his own orgasm until he knows she is coming. Even when a person chooses to be with a variety of partners while dating or through open relationships, we can really enjoy sex on a deeper level when we let ourselves truly BE with people. It can be very horny in its own right, great foreplay, and safe. After all, this is something that you are going to want to be prepared to avoid.
Video about tasting lubricants for oral sex:
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