It was never about you, it was always point blank about the narcissist ONLY. It is obvious they are also not concerned with empathy for you — in regard to the long term consequences of a relationship. When you are the new source of narcissistic supply — the narcissist is high on his or her drug, and appears to be madly in love, incredibly attentive, adores you, worships you — and will tell you just how much you are adored and worshipped. They are mature and sensible enough to realise that a potential life long relationship takes time to ascertain, it takes time to get to know a person, and time to see if a love relationship could work healthily. You need to know the narcissist is a pathological liar.
Inevitably the initial adoring comes at a very high price for the person who has been secured for narcissistic supply, and the fall, the devaluing is imminent — when the False Self is not being fed exactly what it requires — and the previously adored partner will be devalued and discarded. All of this was false, the narcissist actually has no identity for him or herself, the narcissist steals identities to know he or she exists. The phrase can be used in different ways. Visited 89, times, 8 visits today The following two tabs change content below. It is obvious they are also not concerned with empathy for you — in regard to the long term consequences of a relationship. You will discover that when the narcissist is no longer having his or her ego stroked by you, that the brand of narcissistic supply will now become how much the narcissist can affect you, create fear, paranoia and pain within you, negative attention serves the narcissist the same as positive attention — this is when the narcissist will use projection to label you as all the things that he or she does not take responsibility for lying, adultery, abuse, selfishness, manipulation, etc. They are mature and sensible enough to realise that a potential life long relationship takes time to ascertain, it takes time to get to know a person, and time to see if a love relationship could work healthily. The narcissist is full of energy, excited, and very forthcoming with future dreams and plans which of course are everything you want to hear. It has also been used to refer to abusers in romantic relationships showering their victims with praise, gifts, and affection in the early stages of a relationship. When you are the new source of narcissistic supply — the narcissist is high on his or her drug, and appears to be madly in love, incredibly attentive, adores you, worships you — and will tell you just how much you are adored and worshipped. Do not allow someone to sweep you off your feet, and force their way in to your life, bed and heart. Narcissists are insatiably needy. Narcissists enmesh, they ensnare, engulf and bond intensely and quickly. Love bombing is an attempt to influence a person by lavish demonstrations of attention and affection. Narcissists have no True Self — their inner self has been completely engulfed by the False Self. The narcissist does not have the resources to deal with, process or heal this inner terminal self-degradation, because he or she dismissed the True Self and created a False Self in its place. This is a definite red flag especially when coupled with love bombing. Therefore any reverence for life — love, compassion, empathy, integrity and genuine connection is null and void. He or she is the most needy of all the needy people requiring narcissistic supply like a heroin addict requires heroin , and his or her literal emotional survival has depended on acquiring narcissistic supply. A few weeks or even months of spending time with someone — without having sex — and without making a commitment to be in a relationship is one of the healthiest moves you could ever do. He or she has no idea until getting to know you whether or not you would make a good partner which is exactly what you should be thinking as well and this due-diligence takes time. Normal life disappointments can be processed by people who are non-narcissists with relative ease. Any information derived from you is to know how best to control you as a source of narcissistic supply. Beware of someone asking you intense inner and personal questions. It is a powerful tool. How to Flush Out a Narcissist When You Meet One It is so important to not get caught up with love bombing, because being intensely idealised is one of the surest signs that further down the track you will be horrifically devalued and abused.
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