Yummy mummies are everywhere The metaphor of man as predator and woman as prey may seem crude but at the end of the day, many believe it. Depression, suicide, drug abuse, jail and psychiatric medications are all more common in populations of children raised by single mothers. The game you play with other women may not have the same effect. To give them some hope that it might be YOU, and then leave them is unspeakably cruel. All of those things can be fixed. I have always recommended that men be genuine and sincere in their love life but with a single mother, you should hardcode that nugget of advice on your cerebellum.
The usual player approach will not work. The entire procedure is not as far removed from a courting scene on Animal Planet as we may think. You may have been with a woman who was close to her family. Male power is an illusion because it is granted to us by the female. You can pick up a heroin addiction, drop out of high school, rob a bank or decide to write the great American novel financing yourself on your credit cards. If you are a mother and you are collecting child support, you are not a single mother. See how that works? So politically incorrect to say so, I know. Or it soon will. Having a child out of wedlock is pretty much the number one thing you can do to fuck up your life. The game you play with other women may not have the same effect. Second, single mothers are clearly really, really shitty at making life decisions. Nor will false compassion, where you feign interest in order to add another notch to your bedpost. In fact, if you attempt to use a routine from your vaunted repertoire to most single mothers, you will face a swift rebuke. Third, single mothers profoundly misunderstand men. Check your masculine pride at the door and acknowledge that truth. The twist is that, everything being equal, women have the power to decide whether the dating light is green or red. Stand firmly on guard. Are you man enough to accept the challenge? Never, ever assume a divorced woman is some innocent blushing maid cruelly abused by some terrible man. Something wicked this way comes. All of those things can be fixed. But a woman who makes YOU the center of her life is going to be a great wife. You may have had to bear the impossible weight of maternal expectations but nothing, I repeat nothing, can prepare you for the challenge of dating a single mother. Depression, suicide, drug abuse, jail and psychiatric medications are all more common in populations of children raised by single mothers. In our subconscious, we connect to our primordial heritage via the modern ritual of seeking out a partner for life, or for tonight. He wants you so badly.
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DON'T FALL INTO THIS TRAP OF DATING A SINGLE PARENT...
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